ummm greetings everyone reading this.... no i am not dead... i just have been avoiding this website for a long ass time do to sorting my head out these last nearly 2 years and trying to find a job which i finally have... and will be busy with it. with 40 hours a week.. and have hardly any free time to myself. but that is all i will say on my job matter no further questions will be answered for my safety of my job sorry. all i will say is that its office work and leave it at that seriously i am not going to explain it dont ask me. i cant for legal reasons. heck i might have to delete this journal later O_O
anyways as you can probably read from this ....Earl my maltese passed away this morning. he has been suffering from a terrible cough for several months almost a year now which turned out to be him having an enlarged heart causing heart murmurs. lately we have noticed this week that he has been having to get up more in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom and his coughing has sounded worse to point of him sounding like a honking goose.
poor little thing has a hard time eating because he needed his teeth cleaned again but we could not do that since it involved putting him to sleep which cant take that risk. so yeah his breath smelled like rotten feces no joke but the guy was so loving you looked past his horrendously smelling mouth and constantly wanted to kiss him. So with his struggling to eat and going to the bathroom, he had weight and this morning before i was going to my autism group meetings with my friends, my dad was coming downstairs and noticed giant puddles of blood dripping down the stair case. my mom was freaking out because she thought it was Rudy who has had trouble peeing lately...idk why he just will not go outside. hes ok though dont worry i think he just either ate something bad or mightve had a minor bladder infection. but hes fine now sad now really depressed but hes fine health wise...
anyways....... so with the blood going down the stairs and my mom freaking out, Earl comes hopping up the stairs after me crying and shaking freaking out and I bent over to pick him up and hold him when I screamed into tears because I saw a giant puddle of blood and a slight bit of poo from his bottom. I wanted so badly to stay there and be there to help my poor mother at the time. because i literally have never seen her cry so much. he was all she had left of her parents. i wish i could have been there to have helped earl in his time of need and the last memory i have of him, is him just looking at me scared shitless. i at least am glad i got to kiss him. but i miss him so much. i have no one who will come running to me when i have a panic attack or bad day who is always there by my side to snuggle. i miss him so bad. first Toby and now Earl. I just hope i do not lose Rudy any time soon.
I really am trying to hold my shit together now and i am happy that i have a job and will be participating in statewide autism conference in August with my friends but i just wish more than anything right now, I could have one more day with toby and Earl. one more day where i could hear them talk to me, play with them, kiss them and watch as they smile and their snowy white fur glistens in the sun but theyre gone. and im almost still upset with how the Avengers movie ended. saw last night and loved it but... dear fucking god that ending is depressing. for now im keeping an eye on Rudy. poor little buttercup is crying and looking for Earl confused.
maybe i just will finish my steamboat willie legos.